Celebs Are All Going On Silent Vacations
Like Gisele Bündchen and her fellow supers, Debby Kwong chooses to reconnect with body, mind and soul by vacationing in solitude
By Harper’s Bazaar Singapore Team - published
A once in a lifetime opportunity to tune out from the modern world and tune in to my inner self, while enjoying twice-daily yoga sessions, massages and Ayurvedic treatments at a hidden eco-village in Sri Lanka? Sure I’ll dive right in. The all-inclusive Ulpotha is a slice of heaven for people who love the great outdoors—and luckily for me, I am one of them. There was no electricity, no hot running water, no alcohol, no caffeine, no meat, no salt, no sugar and no cell phone signal (unless I hiked up Monkey Rock or found the perfect spot along the lake). I slept in a mud hut with no doors, showered under a canopy of trees in the day and only had starlight to help me navigate my way around the village at night. While I was open to this outdoor life, it did take me a while to get into the swing of things. Living in Singapore, with constant distractions, I felt a little at a loss with this slower pace of life. I spent the first four days striding around the village, forcing myself to read a book, or tapping my fingers until I could attend the next yoga class. I wasn’t used to taking it slow, I felt I needed to do something. However, I took to the phone detox, far more easily than I expected. While some of my fellow yogis were taking a 30-minute bike ride each day to the local tailor to hook up to his WiFi, I was quite happy to leave my phone alone (in fact, I forgot to check it even when I returned home to Singapore). But I could see why someone like Gisele Bündchen makes a silent holiday her vacation of choice. Each day, I would wake up to the sounds of birds chirping and squirrels running along the thatched roof, I’d then enjoy an energising session of yoga, followed by a nourishing breakfast of fresh coconut and pastries. And then when I wasn’t reviving mind, body and soul, I was joining other Ulpotha visitors on a bike ride around the lakes, enjoying a trek through the jungle to reach the Buddhist temple or visiting other local heritage sites. The part I enjoyed most about my stay? The cool evenings where I could engage in delightful conversations with like-minded people—there was no fidgeting with phones to fill awkward silences. Although time seemed to move glacially in the beginning, a week at Ulpotha made me understand what living in the moment really feels like. ■ Priced from $3,800 for a two-week stay. www.ulpotha.com
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Kamalaya, Thailand Guests can expect a holistic approach to detoxing. Priced from $1,990 for three nights, www.kamalaya.com
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